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This Reality TV Couple’s Story Reveals The Reality of Sex Workers Dating Their Clients
Reality TV has always been mindless fun for me. From Blind Date, to Rock of Love, to The Bachelor, I remember some of my earliest ideas of relationships, unfortunately, came from reality television. Imagine my heartbreak when I’d learn that most of these shows weren’t reality at all, but heavily edited shows where good-looking actors would… Read more
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How to Join the BDSM Community, and What to Know Before You Do
The pros and cons of the BDSM Community and how to get connected to one. Read more
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Is “Based Chaser” a Chaser?
A few days ago, a video where a man expresses unflinching attraction to transgender women went viral on social media and it’s causing a lot of debate and discussion about trans attraction and whether or not the man in the video is a “chaser”. The short street-interview style video starts with a cis man asking… Read more
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White Supremacy, Assimilation and My Time as “One of The Good Ones”
I was raised in a small suburb in Los Angeles County, an hour east of the city. When I tell people about the racial demographics of my hometown, they often respond with some version of “oh that’s interesting”; because my suburb consisted predominantly of Chinese and Korean immigrants. Once my family moved out of the… Read more
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Yet Another Rebirth
I’ve lost track of the amount of times I’ve made posts like this on new blogs I’ve created. I started my first written blog on Xanga over a decade ago, and have since created several blogs all with the desire to reframe and re-represent myself. In truth, rebirth is a central part of who I… Read more