Kat Blaque
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The Split Realities of Transfemme Desire and Desirability
Kat Blaque discusses the duality of desirability when you are a transgender woman existing in a world that doesn’t fully comprehend trans women’s desirability. Read more
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Returning to My Roots
After having my Facebook and Twitter hacked, I’m finding myself reaching for a simpler time and returning to my roots. Read more
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My Facebook Fan Page Was Hacked: This is how Meta Responded
How a popular podcast scam stole my Facebook page and why I no longer feel I need one. Read more
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Trace Lysette Was “Disappointed” In My Review of Monica (2022)
Monica touched me but left me wanting so much more. Trace Lysette wasn’t a fan of hearing that, and it made me question whether or not I should apply the same critical lens I apply to all films to films starring trans women. Read more
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Bridget Ziegler Probably Isn’t Attracted To Women: Unicorn Hunters and The Thrill of Homophobia
Everyone’s talking about Bridget Ziegler’s supposed relationship with a woman, but they’re ignoring that her interaction with her husband’s victim was likely a reflection of her husband’s patriarchal control, not her own sapphic desire. Read more
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Hiding Your Transness Long-term isn’t Realistic…
You can’t build a productive long term relationship without transparency. When you make it a secret, it becomes a weapon to be used against you. Read more
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Is Sleepaway Camp Transphobic, if Angela isn’t “really” transgender?
Kat Blaque discusses Sleepaway Camp, transphobia and the argument that it isn’t transphobia if it isn’t about an “actual” trans person. Read more
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Dating “Preferences” and the Painful Burden of Being Less Preferred, But Always Desired
Dating “preference” discourse online feels odd when you embody the opposite of the beauty standard and have a long history of being mistreated by intimate partners. Read more
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The Problem With Transgender Dating Apps and Why You’re Getting More Trans Matches
Transgender Dating is complex, but fetishism often makes finding love online even more complicated for transgender women. Read more
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This Reality TV Couple’s Story Reveals The Reality of Sex Workers Dating Their Clients
Reality TV has always been mindless fun for me. From Blind Date, to Rock of Love, to The Bachelor, I remember some of my earliest ideas of relationships, unfortunately, came from reality television. Imagine my heartbreak when I’d learn that most of these shows weren’t reality at all, but heavily edited shows where good-looking actors would Read more
Blaque In The City 