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Is “Based Chaser” a Chaser?

A few days ago, a video where a man expresses unflinching attraction to transgender women went viral on social media and it’s causing a lot of debate and discussion about trans attraction and whether or not the man in the video is a “chaser”. The short street-interview style video starts with a cis man asking…

I totally forgot to post this lol! My church is a goth club. 🦇 One of the most dizzying aspects of being a transgender blogger is that I have often struggled to describe my success and wins. I think when you’re a minority you’re used to creating content about trauma and about how hard your life has been. In all reality, some of my biggest struggles of the past decade have had nothing to do with being transgender, and that’s nice. As I’ve been discussing, I recently moved and it’s been a pretty emotional experience. Check out my last Patreon blog for the full story but when I first came to LA, I was essentially starting over. I had spent years of my life not being true to myself and it hit me as I embarked on this move that I am, for the most part, an idealistic embodiment of the kind of person I thought I would never be able to be. I spent a lot of time mourning the fact that I wouldn’t have the things i currently have. That I wouldn’t love or be loved. That I wouldn’t feel safe or secure. And it’s not like some times I don’t feel that way still, but there are too many examples in my life right now that prove that those anxieties are simply untrue. Soooo I’m moving. It’s very stressful, but my new apartment is pretty amazing. I think I’ll be here for a bit. Since leaving twitter, I’ve been trying to get back into the things I love. I realized that I had over a hundred CDs but no CD player…so I got one. I feel so retro lol. But also I remember having one just like this when I was in high school. I remember thinking it was the pinnacle of technology. Omg I can make cassettes with it? Lol. The amount of burned CDs I made back in the day. I wonder where those are. Lol. I should burn kpop albums since I can’t find many vinyl :( This event was sooooo fun! Thanks for the invite @thekarpelgroup! So lovely seeing some friendly faces and amazing performers!! TONIGHT on @foxtv, @theebillyporter’s episode of #accusedonfox starring @jharrisonghee premieres!! Fox teamed up with @glaad to bring you the story of a drag queer who falls in love with a closeted man. It’s not the first time we’ve seen this story but it may be one of the first times we’ve seen this story told this way; with people who live there experiences both in front and behind the camera! Listen to Porter and Ghee speak about why they were so excited to tell this story! My thoughts on #hogwartslegacy and #transphobia My partner interrupts me filming. This was early in our relationship around the time he first allowed me to film at his place.